Redefining YOU In 2024

As the new year rolls in, let’s not just make resolutions; let’s redefine them. Think of 2024 as the perfect canvas for your personal masterpiece. You’ve got the brushes (your talents and passions), the colours (your experiences and dreams), and a whole year to paint something spectacular. No more “New Year, New Me” clichés; it’s time for “New Year, Authentic Me.” This isn’t just about changing habits; it’s about evolving as a person. It’s about peeling back layers to reveal the true you, unapologetically and confidently. So, get yourself ready over the next few days, because you’re in for a journey of self-discovery and transformation that will redefine your 2024. I’ve done this a lot over the last few years and I’m a totally different, more confident person. Never be afraid to be ‘you’.

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The Laughter Diet: Smiling Your Way Through Goals

Have you ever noticed how everything seems a tad lighter when infused with a dash of humour? That’s your secret weapon for thriving in 2024. Goals feel less like mountains and more like playful challenges when approached with a smile. Forget the pressure cooker of resolutions; think of them as your personal comedy skits where each step forward is a reason to chuckle. Remember, a day without laughter is a day wasted, especially when chasing your dreams. It’s important to try and see the good sides, the happier sides, and the fun sides to every situation. Don’t always focus on the negatives! Make sure you are smiling and thinking of the positive outcomes that could happen too.

Unleashing The Power Of “No”

Get this: “No” is the newest tool you’re going to embrace and use in 2024. Yes, you heard that right! In a world constantly shouting “Yes,” learning to say “No” is going to become your superpower. It’s not about being negative; it’s about being selective. Choose what aligns with your aspirations, and gracefully bow out of what doesn’t. Your time and energy are precious so be sure to spend them wisely! And remember, every time you say no to something that doesn’t serve you, you’re opening up the opportunity to say yes to something that does. Don’t worry about upsetting anyone because if they’re genuine friends and care about you, they will adapt with you. ‘No’ has been one of the most important words for me the last few years and I am much happier for it. Trust me!

The Unseen Path: Follow Your Curiosity

Curiosity didn’t just trouble the cat; it also led to some of the greatest discoveries. Let your curiosity guide you. It could be as simple as exploring a new hobby or as profound as changing your career trajectory. Remember, sometimes you can follow your dreams by looking for an online study course or a local workshop to give you the skills you need to make the career jump you’ve been wanting to make since 2020. Let curiosity be your compass in 2024. I always love learning new things and sometimes it’s the best thing you can do. You can learn so much. Especially if you’re unhappy in your career right now.

The Myth Of Multitasking: Embracing The Zen Of Singularity

Here’s a fun fact: Multitasking is a myth. Our brains are wired for singularity. So, let’s embrace the zen of doing one thing at a time because life shouldn’t be a race to the finish line. Whether it’s working on a project, spending time with family, or pursuing a hobby, give it your undivided attention. Quality trumps quantity, and your focus determines your reality. Connecting on a singular level like this really helps you take in your surroundings and fully be present at the given moment.

Digital Detox: Reclaiming Real Connections

In the age of endless scrolling, let’s dare to log off. Digital detox isn’t just about reducing screen time; it’s about enhancing life time. Rediscover the joy of real conversations, the beauty of the outdoors, and the thrill of living in the moment. Your social media feed can wait; real life doesn’t. Plus, the more time you spend away from screens, the more you’ll appreciate the world around you. It’s about finding balance, cherishing face-to-face interactions, and soaking in the simple, unfiltered joys of everyday life. I do this regularly as it’s super important to not get lost in the online world. Just remember not to forget to check my blog, just kidding! Ha ha.

The Art Of Imperfect Action: Embracing Flawsome

Perfection is overrated. In 2024, let’s celebrate “flawsome” – the beauty of being flawed yet awesome. Even though there is literally no such thing as a flaw. We’re all unique. Take imperfect action. Make mistakes, learn, grow, and keep moving forward. Every misstep is a step towards growth. Be gloriously imperfect, and watch how liberating it feels. Embrace each stumble as a learning opportunity, and remember, the most beautiful stories often have a few plot twists. It’s about progressing, not perfecting, and finding joy in the journey, not just the destination.

Financial Fitness: Your Wallet’s Workout Plan

Let’s give your wallet a workout this year. Financial fitness isn’t just about saving; it’s about smart spending. Invest in experiences, not just things. Plan for the future, but don’t forget to enjoy the present. Balance is key, and your financial health is a critical part of your overall wellbeing. Consider creating a budget that includes room for fun and adventure. It’s about being mindful of your finances without missing out on life’s pleasures. Remember, a healthy financial life is not just about accumulation, but also about wise allocation. Another good thing I started doing a few years ago is investing. Smart investing! It’s really helpful!

The Symphony Of Self-Care: Tuning Into Your Needs

2024 is the year to conduct your life’s symphony with self-care as the keynote. Think of self-care not as a luxury, but as a fundamental. It’s about listening to your body, mind, and spirit, and responding with kindness. Whether it’s a quiet walk, a favourite book, or a relaxing bath, find what soothes your soul. This year, let self-care be your rhythm, and watch how it harmonises your life. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup, so fill yours up first. This is super important!

Adventure Awaits: Saying Yes To New Experiences

Welcome to the year of ‘Yes!’ – where new experiences are not just dreams, but destinations. 2024 is your invitation to adventure, to step out of your comfort zone and embrace the unknown. Whether it’s travelling to a place you’ve never been, trying a cuisine that’s foreign to your palate, or simply starting a conversation with someone new that you see everyday before work but too scared to approach, let this be the year you broaden your horizons. Each new experience is a chapter in your book of life, waiting to be written. So go ahead, say yes to adventure (but no to what doesn’t serve you), and watch your story unfold in the most unexpected and thrilling ways. You really do get fulfillment from this!

Conclusion: Your Year, Your Rules

So, there you have it – your not-so-typical guide to redefining yourself in 2024. This year is about being authentically you, laughing a bit more, saying no when needed, following your curiosity, focusing on one thing at a time, reconnecting with the real world, embracing your flaws, and getting financially fit. Remember, 2024 is your canvas, and you’re the artist. Paint a year that’s uniquely yours. Here’s to a year of laughter, learning, and living life to the fullest!



  1. December 27, 2023 / 8:38 pm

    I love your fashion piece in jeans ! Thanks also for your tips

    • Lorna
      December 28, 2023 / 5:56 pm

      Thank you!

  2. Shifty180
    December 28, 2023 / 2:07 pm

    Hi Lorna, such good and inspiring tips. I enjoyed reading them a lot. I have even used some tips without knowing. I am going to start my work elsewhere in 2024 after working at my current employer for 10 years. It’s quite something, but the universe Will help. I am also going outside more and with this weather I can walk around in my wellies.

    Hope you have a good new year and I am looking forward to new Posts. Hopefully with wellies,haha.

    Btw, did you ever receive my e-mails?

    • Lorna
      December 28, 2023 / 5:59 pm

      Oh! That’s amazing! Congratulations on the career change 🙂 I really hope you enjoy it!
      And yes! I received them, I have been really busy with the holidays though and Christen here, so I will reply as soon as I can.
      Good luck with everything! 🙂

  3. Shifty180
    December 29, 2023 / 8:13 am

    Thank you, yes I am very excited, but a bit anxious too. Luckily, the former is more present. Good to hear you have received. I can imagine you are quote busy, good that Christen is there to join you during these rainy holidays. Enjoy.

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